Apologize, Forgive, Thank People (love your people)
Say you’re sorry when you make a mistake, fail, respond rudely, interrupt, and forget to Like Your People.
That’s tough sometimes – especially when it’s not completely my fault.
Yes. But you’re a grown-up.
I’m really not.
Okay. Then you’re off the hook.
Forgive people. Give others the break you wish they’d give you. Let them up off the mat and help them get back to loving their people.
Why should I do that when they never change?
Because you want to Like Your People.
Maybe I don’t anymore.
Yes you do.
But this was the last straw.
Then perhaps they’re no longer your people.
Right.
Then forgive them anyhow and consider making a change.
What do you mean change?
You know what I mean.
But that’s a small drastic.
Then they’re still your people.
Be grateful people. Embrace your interdependence. Delight in the work (attention, contributions) of others. Show your gratitude. Say it. Write it. Be real.
All of this is just common sense.
Yes, I know.
It’s hard to do.
Yes.
How can I make it simpler?
First, start by thinking a small less of yourself. Second, know how much potential you have to make excellent things happen. Third, start holding yourself accountable to yourself and the people around you in the same way you’d like them to do it for you.
But that’s hard.
Yes, sometimes. But in the end, it’s more fun.
“Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and more pleased.”
Mother Teresa
Albanian missionary
Part V: Time to Reckon (<1-minute read… more to reckon… much more to do)
Part I (back): Introduction (<1-minute read)
Part II (back): Say, Be Kind, Be Patient (<1-minute read)
Part III (back): Be honest, Encourage People (<1-minute read)
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